Saturday, March 19, 2016

Positive vs Negative

I have met a couple of positive speaking people recently.

What I mean is, no matter how bad or worse a thing is, they will claim that it is very good and positive. For example, if one of his good staffs left the company, he will tell you that the company is changing strategy so this staff has to let go. But in fact, it is the staff who chose to leave the company for better prospect. Another example will be the business is getting worse and you know they are not doing well as well, he will tells you that they are still doing good and in the midst of doing cost cutting exercise.

It makes me a little bit sick sometimes as I thought they are a bunch of liar and just want people think good of them. I definitely don't like them, because they make me feel sick. And we do not really have mutual topics to talk about, because you know they are sharing something not true but just being positive.

However, I discovered they have something in common. They are successful in their business, getting rich and continuing to pursue their dreams by being positive. Even though I don't think we can benefit anything from them, why they need to lie to people by being positive?

Perhaps that's the difference between the rich and the poor, mindset and thinking. Perhaps I'm always being honest, and I don't want people to get sick of me. However, to be successful in one thing, sometimes positive attitude is very important. When you told others you are there, mean you have to be there. I'm definitely not there yet, but I'm learning. ;)

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